Alright, Blogosphere friends, I need help! I am hoping that among my reader base there are some experienced nursing Mamas out there who can help me out. I need troubleshooting. The last couple weeks the girls have been eating like crazy and have become very fussy. I know it isn’t a milk supply issue as their weight gain is above average for twins, right on track for singles and they have an enormous amount of wet and dirty diapers. I should say upfront my typical nursing style is on demand as needed but from the beginning they have tended to eat in three hour intervals since they were in the NICU for a bit and that is what they had them doing. They are 5 months old now and the doctor advised me to start solids with oatmeal cereal even though for the other kids I waited longer- twins has been a bit different ballgame. So, I have been giving them oatmeal at 6:30 pm before the bedtime routines start and then a very full nursing at 8:30 to make sure they get the fatty hind milk and not just the watery fore milk. They have fresh diapers and are put down to bed. From there I charted last night’s activity as I thought, just maybe, in my sleep blurriness I was feeling like I was getting up with them more than I really was. Unfortunately, my foggy memory was accurate and they are eating about 8-10 times in the 10-12 hours they sleep. Maybe from looking at this you could give me some ideas to try? I do not have grandiose ideas of sleeping through the night- just a manageable amount of sleep for a functioning Mama. So, fed and to bed at 8:30, Anna wakes at 11 pm eats on right side, then I change her diaper and feed her more on the right side to give her the hind milk, then back to bed. Ruth wakes at 11:30 eats on the left side and falls asleep. Anna wakes at 2:15 am, eats on the right side and falls asleep. Ruth wakes at 4 am, eats on the left side and falls asleep. Anna wakes at 4:20, finishes on the left side from what Ruth didn’t eat and then nurses on the right side and falls asleep. Then Ruth wakes up again at 5:15 am finishes on the right side, falls asleep but not before her crying has woken my older two kiddos up and we are up for the day… I walk through most days in a fog. If I stop for even a moment to eat or nurse I am nodding off. Any help would be appreciated. Oh, and I should mention that I try all other things before nursing at night: pacifier, rocking, check diaper, etc. but if I let them cry any length of time everyone wakes up and then I have to get four kids back to sleep- not fun. Thanks for any ideas! These two cuties thank you as well.
Happy Birthday Mama! January 13, 2012
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.
– Tenneva Jordan
It is through raising my children that I have come to some small understanding of what it may have been like for my mother to have raised me. My Mama used to joke that she hoped I would have a child just like myself to raise so I would “get it”… Well, I had Aralyn Elizabeth. I both laugh and cry when I hear myself come out of my sweet baby girl’s mouth but laughing or crying, I always appreciate my Mama more. I am quite certain that I may have been THE challenge of my mother’s lifetime. A bundle of energy and nerves wrapped in stubbornness and sprinkled with sass and ‘creativity’ and not always the good kind :). How my Mama still has no visible gray hairs is beyond me! But I am grateful everyday that she did not give up on me. I am hopeful everyday that I can somehow repay her efforts. I am blessed everyday as I watch her in her now role as ‘Mimi’ to my children. Today, on her birthday I wish her every kind of happiness and many more years of the same. Happy Birthday Mama, I love you.
Homespun Holiday January 12, 2012
What a wonderful, blessed Christmas we had! Here are some of the highlights:
I scored this beautiful tree on black friday- next best thing to a real one, most people couldn’t tell it was fake!
The REAL garland to give the home a piney smell. Also scored on black friday!
Ara and James loved the tree this year. The ornaments were never in the same place and we had quite a few bite the dust, unfortunately.
Our first fire in the fireplace 🙂
This year we did quite a bit of holiday baking!
Peppermint Bark chilling in the fridge
Baking Maple Granola for gifts…
Along with 6 dozen cookies: 3 dozen chocolate chip and 3 dozen toffee crunch
Packaged and ready to go and one left for Paul and I to munch on…
We took the kids to see the Christmas train display
Made gifts for our family…
…started to knit the kids stockings… and then decided to let that go this year, maybe next.
What a sweet Christmas it was! Quiet, no places to rush off to, celebrating with family and friends the birth of our Lord.
So grateful for the blessing of God’s Son sent to earth and the blessings He continues to send everyday.
I hope you and your family had a very blessed Christmas as well!
What’s Cookin’ Wednesdays January 11, 2012
Jen’s Coconut Muesli
Mix in a bowl a handful or two of oats, a handful of chopped raw walnuts, a handful of raisins or chopped dates, 1/3 banana torn into chunks, and sprinkle with coconut flakes.
You could toast these and drizzle with honey if you wanted more of a dessert but for breakfast, I just toss a handful of coconut flakes on top.
Serve with cold milk of choice. Great with nut milks and coconut milks as well!
So, these aren’t the best quality pictures, as all I am working with is my phone camera right now, but they will give you a sense of this wonderful blessing we now call home. Welcome! Come on in. The kitchen is where all the fun happens so we’ll start there.My cute son is a bonus :). Next, you have the living room all decked out for Christmas…Next, my kid’s favorite room, the playroom… I feel so blessed to have this space to keep the toys out of their rooms! I might have gone a little bit crazy with the pictures on this one but I love that they have this space!This side of the playroom is mostly Ara’s domain until the little girls are older. Her dress up, new dollhouse from Mimi and Granddad and kitchen set that Papa made her.This side has the book nook which now hosts a green wooden toy chest for storage and seating, James’ shelves, and the millions of baby dolls/stuffed animals in the cradle.James’ domain: Trucks and trains galore! A boy has to have some space of his own with all these girls around!There is also a half bath downstairs that I will take pics of later and the upstairs which will be “Our Home” Part Two… TO BE CONTINUED…